What was your first gay/bi awakening? Mine was when i saw a shirtless Iron fist in ultimate spider man

I saw a shirtless Iron fist in ultimate spider man and 13 year old me had a bi-awakening. I'm from a homophobic culture in east africa so when i was intrigued my sister said in a pissed of tone "why do you act weird when you see a muscular shirtless guy" 😭